What To Do in a Crisis
What To Do When a Family Member Is in Crisis
What To Do in a Crisis What To Do When a Family Member Is in Crisis
A crisis can be frightening and overwhelming. It can help to slow things down, focus on safety, and take practical steps. You do not need to solve everything in the moment. Your role is to provide support, help reduce immediate risk, and connect your family member with appropriate care.
Encourage Treatment
- Encourage your family member to seek help as soon as possible.
- Let them know you are willing to support them in finding care.
- If they already have providers, suggest contacting them and asking for an urgent appointment.
- If they are not connected to care, consider calling a local crisis line or visiting a walk‑in mental health clinic.
Stay Calm and Ensure Safety
- Speak in a calm, steady tone and keep your body language relaxed.
- Avoid arguing or raising your voice.
- Remove anything that could pose a safety risk if possible.
- If your family member is at immediate risk of harming themselves or others, treat this as an emergency.
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Call 9‑8‑8 for Immediate Emotional Support
9‑8‑8 Suicide Crisis Helpline is available across Canada for anyone experiencing suicidal thoughts or emotional distress.
- Available 24 hours a day
- Phone or text
- Supportive, non‑judgmental, and confidential
Use Local Crisis Lines and Mobile Crisis Teams
Many communities have mental health crisis lines staffed by trained professionals who can help de‑escalate the situation and guide next steps.
Some regions offer mobile crisis teams that can come to your home. These teams may include mental health clinicians and, in some areas, non‑police responders. They can:
- Assess risk
- Offer in‑person support
- Help determine whether hospital care is needed
- Connect your family member with follow‑up services
These teams are useful when you need urgent help but want to avoid the emergency department unless necessary.
When to Go to the Emergency Department
Go to the emergency department if:
- Your family member cannot keep themselves safe
- There are serious concerns about self-harm or harm to others
- They are experiencing severe symptoms such as hallucinations, delusions, extreme agitation, or inability to care for basic needs
- A healthcare provider advises immediate assessment
If possible, bring:
- Identification
- A list of medications and allergies
- Contact information for current providers
- Any recent care plans or discharge instructions
What to Expect in the Emergency Department
- Triage staff will assess your family member based on risk, not arrival time.
- Wait times can vary and may be long.
- Your family member may be placed in a quiet or supervised area for safety.
- A mental health clinician or psychiatrist will assess them and recommend next steps.
- Follow‑up plans may include outpatient care, crisis services, or hospitalization.
When to Call Police
Call police if:
- There is an immediate risk to someone’s safety
- Your family member is threatening harm with a weapon
- You cannot keep the environment safe
- You cannot safely transport them to the hospital
When calling, clearly state:
- “This is a mental health crisis.”
- Any safety concerns or presence of weapons
- Any relevant history if known
Stay calm, be factual, and answer questions directly. If possible, remain with your family member until help arrives.
Understanding Consent and Privacy
- You can always share information with healthcare providers, even if your family member cannot consent.
- Providers may not be able to share information back, but they can still use what you tell them when assessing risk and planning care.
- Bring key details such as behaviours you have observed, statements your family member has made, and any safety concerns.
Create a Simple Crisis Safety Plan
When your family member is not in crisis, it helps to create a plan together. A safety plan may include:
- Early warning signs that a crisis might be developing
- Strategies your family member finds comforting
- People they trust and want contacted
- Preferred crisis services
- Medication information
- Steps to take if the situation escalates
Having a safety plan can reduce panic during future crises and help everyone respond consistently.
Take Care of Yourself
Supporting a family member in crisis can be emotionally and physically exhausting.
Remember to:
- Ask others for help
- Take breaks when you can
- Reach out for your own support
- Contact a crisis line if you need immediate emotional support
You are not alone, and your well-being matters.